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doubt； but such an addition will carry the husband beyond the bounds of
reason。
Those sciences that regulate the manners of men； divinity and philosophy；
will have their say in everything； there is no action so private and
secret that can escape their inspection and jurisdiction。 They are best
taught who are best able to control and curb their own liberty； women
expose their nudities as much as you will upon the account of pleasure；
though in the necessities of physic they are altogether as shy。 I will；
therefore； in their behalf：
＇Coste translates this： 〃on the part of philosophy and theology；〃
observing that but few wives would think themselves obliged to
Montaigne for any such lesson to their husbands。＇
teach the husbands； that is； such as are too vehement in the exercise of
the matrimonial dutyif such there still bethis lesson； that the very
pleasures they enjoy in the society of their wives are reproachable if
immoderate； and that a licentious and riotous abuse of them is a fault as
reprovable here as in illicit connections。 Those immodest and debauched
tricks and postures； that the first ardour suggests to us in this affair；
are not only indecently but detrimentally practised upon our wives。 Let
them at least learn impudence from another hand； they are ever ready
enough for our business； and I for my part always went the plain way to
work。
Marriage is a solemn and religious tie； and therefore the pleasure we
extract from it should be a sober and serious delight； and mixed with a
certain kind of gravity； it should be a sort of discreet and
conscientious pleasure。 And seeing that the chief end of it is
generation； some make a question； whether when men are out of hopes as
when they are superannuated or already with child； it be lawful to
embrace our wives。 'Tis homicide； according to Plato。 ＇Laws； 8。＇
Certain nations （the Mohammedan； amongst others abominate all conjunction
with women with child； others also； with those who are in their courses。
Zenobia would never admit her husband for more than one encounter； after
which she left him to his own swing for the whole time of her conception；
and not till after that would again receive him： ＇Trebellius Pollio；
Triginta Tyran。； c。 30。＇ a brave and generous example of conjugal
continence。 It was doubtless from some lascivious poet；＇The lascivious
poet is Homer； see his Iliad； xiv。 294。＇ and one that himself was in
great distress for a little of this sport； that Plato borrowed this
story； that Jupiter was one day so hot upon his wife； that not having so
much patience as till she could get to the couch； he threw her upon the
floor； where the vehemence of pleasure made him forget the great and
important resolutions he had but newly taken with the rest of the gods in
his celestial council； and to brag that he had had as good a bout； as
when he got her maidenhead； unknown to their parents。
The kings of Persia were wont to invite their wives to the beginning of
their festivals； but when the wine began to work in good earnest； and
that they were to give the reins to pleasure； they sent them back to
their private apartments； that they might not participate in their
immoderate lust； sending for other women in their stead； with whom they
were not obliged to so great a decorum of respect。＇Plutarch； Precepts
of Marriage； c。 14。＇ All pleasures and all sorts of gratifications
are not properly and fitly conferred upon all sorts of persons。
Epaminondas had committed to prison a young man for certain debauches；
for whom Pelopidas mediated； that at his request he might be set at
liberty； which Epaminondas denied to him； but granted it at the first
word to a wench of his； that made the same intercession； saying； that it
was a gratification fit for such a one as she； but not for a captain。
Sophocles being joint praetor with Pericles； seeing accidentally a fine
boy pass by： 〃O what a charming boy is that！〃 said he。 〃That might be
very well；〃 answered Pericles； 〃for any other than a praetor； who ought
not only to have his hands； but his eyes； too； chaste。〃 ＇Cicero； De
Offic。； i。 40。＇ AElius Verus； the emperor； answered his wife； who
reproached him with his love to other women； that he did it upon a
conscientious account； forasmuch as marriage was a name of honour and
dignity； not of wanton and lascivious desire； and our ecclesiastical
history preserves the memory of that woman in great veneration； who
parted from her husband because she would not comply with his indecent
and inordinate desires。 In fine； there is no pleasure so just and
lawful； where intemperance and excess are not to be condemned。
But； to speak the truth； is not man a most miserable creature the while？
It is scarce； by his natural condition； in his power to taste one
pleasure pure and entire； and yet must he be contriving doctrines and
precepts to curtail that little he has； he is not yet wretched enough；
unless by art and study he augment his own misery：
〃Fortunae miseras auximus arte vias。〃
＇〃We artificially augment the wretchedness of fortune。〃
Properitius； lib。 iii。 7； 44。＇
Human wisdom makes as ill use of her talent； when she exercises it in
rescinding from the number and sweetness of those pleasures that are
naturally our due； as she employs it favourably and well in artificially
disguising and tricking out the ills of life； to alleviate the sense of
them。 Had I ruled the roast； I should have taken another and more
natural course； which； to say the truth； is both commodious and holy； and
should； peradventure； have been able to have limited it too；
notwithstanding that both our spiritual and corporal physicians； as by
compact betwixt themselves； can find no other way to cure； nor other
remedy for the infirmities of the body and the soul； than by misery and
pain。 To this end； watchings； fastings； hair…shirts； remote and solitary
banishments； perpetual imprisonments； whips and other afflictions； have
been introduced amongst men： but so； that they should carry a sting with
them； and be real afflictions indeed； and not fall out as it once did to
one Gallio； who having been sent an exile into the isle of Lesbos； news
was not long after brought to Rome； that he there lived as merry as the
day was long； and that what had been enjoined him for a penance； turned
to his pleasure and satisfaction： whereupon the Senate thought fit to
recall him home to his wife and family； and confine him to his own house；
to accommodate their punishment to his feeling and apprehension。 For to
him whom fasting would make more healthful and more sprightly； and to him
to whose palate fish were more acceptable than flesh； the prescription of
these would have no curative effect； no more than in the other sort of
physic； where drugs have no effect upon him who swallows them with
appetite and pleasure： the bitterness of the potion and the abhorrence of
the patient are necessary circumstances to the operation。 The nature
that would eat rhubarb like buttered turnips； would frustrate the use and
virtue of it； it must be something to trouble and disturb the stomach；
that must purge and cure it