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the foundations of personality-第43章

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the emotion of fear has as its function a preparation for a danger that is foreseen to be too powerful to be met with effective resistance。 Fear says; 〃It's no use to fight; fly or hide。〃 Therefore; normally there is a heightening of energy feeling and action in these two directions。 There are plenty of recorded incidents where fear has enabled men to run distances utterly impossible to them otherwise。 In the fear states of mental disease; the resistance a frail woman will offer to her attendants is such that the utmost strength of several people is required to restrain her。 Under these circumstances fear acts as an energizer; causing physical reactions not ordinarily within the will of the person。 〃Fear lends wings;〃 is the time…honored way of expressing this。 The trapped animal makes 〃frantic〃 efforts to escape。 Fear is extraordinarily contagious; perhaps because as herd members the cry of fear sets us all racing for safety。 This is the grimmest danger from fires in public places or the presence of a coward in a military unit。 Panic occurs with its blind unreasoning flight; and the result is disastrous。 I emphasize again that emotions are poorly adapted to the welfare of the individual。 Business panics are in large measure the result of the contagiousness of fear; timidity spreads like wildfire; distrust and suspicion are aroused and stagnation results without a 〃real〃 basis。 In President Wilson's phrase; the panic is 〃purely psychological。〃 Intellectualized; fear becomes one of the driving forces of life; as Hobbes'1' pointed out。 Fear of punishment undoubtedly deters from crime; though it is not in itself sufficient; and the kind of punishment becomes important。 Fear of hunger has brought prudence; caution; agriculture into the world。 Life insurance has its root in fear for others; who are really part of one's self; the fear of the rainy day is back of most of the thrift; though the acquisitive feeling and duty may also operate powerfully。 Fear of venereal disease impels many a man to continence who otherwise would follow his desire。 And fear of the bad opinion of others is the most powerful deterrent force in the world。 〃What will people say〃 is; at bottom; fear that they will say bad things; and though it keeps men from the 〃bad〃 conduct; it inhibits the finer nobler actions as well。 There is a great deal of unconventional untrammeled belief in the world that never finds expression because of fear。 How deeply the fear of death modifies the life of people it is impossible to state。 To every one there comes the awful reflection that he; that warmly pulsating being; in love with the world and with living; 〃center of the universe;〃 HE himself must die; must be cold and still and have no will; no power; no feeling; be buried in the ground。 Most of the essential melancholy of the world is due to this realization; and most of the feeling of pessimism and futility thus has its origin。 Mortal mana worm of the eartha brief flower doomed to perishand all of it finds final expression in Gray's marvelous words:  〃The boast of heraldry; the pomp of pow'r;       And all that beauty; all that wealth e'er gave;   Await alike the inevitable hour。       The paths of glory lead but to the grave。〃

'1' Hobbes made fear the most important motive in the conduct of man。

〃Why strive; thou poor creature; for wealth and power; sink thyself in the; Godhead!〃 〃Turn; turn from vain pursuits; fame; the bubble; is bound to break as thou art。〃 This is one type of reaction against this fear;for men react to the fear of death variously。 If man is mortal; God is not; and there is a life everlasting。 The life everlastingwhether a reality or notis conjured up and believed in by an effort to compensate for the fear of death。 I have a son who; when he was three; manifested great emotion if death were to enter in a story。 〃Will anything happen?〃 he would ask; meaning; 〃Will death enter?〃 And if so; he would beg not to have that story told。 But when he was four; he heard some one say that there were people who took old automobiles apart; fixed up the parts and these were then placed in other automobiles。 〃That's what God does to us;〃 he cried triumphantly。 〃When we die; He takes us apart and puts us into babies; and we live again。〃 Thereafter he would discuss death as fearlessly as he spoke of dinner; and all his fears vanished。 Here was a typical rationalization of fear; one that has helped to shape religion; philosophies; ways of living。 And the widespread belief in immortality is a compensation and a rationalization of the fear of death。 If some men rationalize in this fashion; others take directly opposite means。 〃Eat; drink and be merry; for to…morrow we die。〃 The popularity of Omar Khayyam rests upon the aptness of his statement of this side of the case of Man vs。 Death; and many a man who never heard of him has recklessly plunged into dissipation on the theory; 〃a short life and a merry one。〃 This is more truly a pessimism than is the ascetic philosophy。 〃Well; then; I must die;〃 says another。 〃Oh; that I might achieve before death comes!〃 So men; appalled by the brief tenure of life and the haphazard way death strikes; work hard; spurred on by the wish to leave a great work behind them。 This work becomes a Self; left behind; and here the fear of death is compensated for by a little longer life in the form of achievement。 Many a father and mother; looking at their children; feel this as part of their compensation for parenthood。 〃I shall die and leave some one behind me;〃 means; 〃I shall die and yet I shall; in another form; live。〃 Part of the incentive to parenthood; in a time which knows how to prevent parenthood and which shirks it as disagreeable; is the fear of death; of personal annihilation。 For there is in death a blow to one's pride; an indignity in this annihilation;Nothingness。 There is a still larger reaction to the fear of death。 I have stated that the feeling of likeness is part of the feeling of brotherhood and in death is one of the three great likenesses of man。 We are born of the labor of our mothers; our days are full of strife and trouble and we die。 Men's minds have lingered on these facts。 〃Man that is born of a woman; is of few days; and full of trouble。〃 Job did not add to this that he dies; but elsewhere it appears as the bond for mankind。 Reacting to this; the reflective minds of the race have felt that here was the unity of man; here the basis of a brotherhood。 True; the Fatherhood of God was given as a logical reason; but always in every appeal there is the note; 〃Do we not all die? Why hate one another then?〃 So to the fear of death; as with every other fear; man has reacted basely and nobly。 Man is the only animal that foresees death and he is the only one to elaborate ethics and religion。 There is more than an accidental connection between these two facts。 Fear in its foreseeing character is termed worry。 As a phase of character; the liability to worry is of such importance that book after book has dealt with the subject;emphasizing the dangers; the futility and cowardice of it。 It is surely idle to tell people not to worry who live continually on the brink of economic disaster; or who are facing real danger。 But there are 
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