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orgotten to order any dinner； so we were obliged to return to the club for our meal。 When； however； his wife is in good health； she expects her weary husband to accompany her to dinner； opera； or ball； night after night； oblivious of the work the morrow holds in store for him。
In one family I know； paterfamilias goes by the name of the 〃purse。〃 The more one sees of American households the more appropriate that name appears。 Everything is expected of the husband； and he is accorded no definite place in return。 He leaves the house at 8。30。 When he returns； at five； if his wife is entertaining a man at tea； it would be considered the height of indelicacy for him to intrude upon them； for his arrival would cast a chill on the conversation。 When a couple dine out； the husband is always LA BETE NOIRE of the hostess； no woman wanting to sit next to a married man； if she can help it。
The few Benedicts who have had the courage to break away from these conditions and amuse themselves with yachts； salmon rivers； or 〃grass…bachelor〃 trips to Europe； while secretly admired by the women； are frowned upon in society as dangerous examples； likely to sow the seeds of discontent among their comrades； although it is the commonest thing in the world for an American wife to take the children and go abroad on a tour。
Imagine a German or Italian wife announcing to her spouse that she had decided to run over to England for a year with her children； that they might learn English。 The mind recoils in horror from the idea of the catastrophe that would ensue。
Glance around a ball…room； a dinner party； or the opera； if you have any doubts as to the unselfishness of our married men。 How many of them do you suppose are present for their own pleasure？ The owner of an opera box rarely retains a seat in his expensive quarters。 You generally find him idling in the lobbies looking at his watch； or repairing to a neighboring concert hall to pass the weary hours。 At a ball it is even worse。 One wonders why card…rooms are not provided at large balls （as is the custom abroad）； where the bored husbands might find a little solace over 〃bridge；〃 instead of yawning in the coat…room or making desperate signs to their wives from the doorway； … signals of distress； by the bye； that rarely produce any effect。
It is the rebellious husband who is admired and courted； however。 A curious trait of human nature compels admiration for whatever is harmful； and forces us； in spite of our better judgment； to depreciate the useful and beneficent。 The coats… of…arms of all countries are crowded with eagles and lions； that never yet did any good； living or dead； orators enlarge on the fine qualities of these birds and beasts； and hold them up as models； while using as terms of reproach the name of the goose or the cow； creatures that minister in a hundred ways to our wants。 Such a spirit has brought helpful； productive 〃better halves〃 to the humble place they now occupy in the eyes of our people。
As long as men passed their time in fighting and carousing they were heroes； as soon as they became patient bread…winners all the romance evaporated from their atmosphere。 The Jewish Hercules had his revenge in the end and made things disagreeable for his tormentors。 So far； however； there are no signs of a revolt among the shorn lambs in this country。 They patiently bend their necks to the collar … the kindest； most loving and devoted helpmates that ever plodded under the matrimonial yoke。
When in the East； one watches with admiration the part a donkey plays in the economy of those primitive lands。 All the work is reserved for that industrious animal； and little play falls to his share。 The camel is always bad…tempered； and when overladen lies down； refusing to move until relieved of its burden。 The Turk is lazy and selfish； the native women pass their time in chattering and giggling； the children play and squabble； the ubiquitous dog sleeps in the sun； but from daybreak to midnight the little mouse…colored donkeys toil unceasingly。 All burdens too bulky or too cumbersome for man are put on his back； the provender which horses and camels have refused becomes his portion； he is the first to begin the day's labor； and the last to turn in。 It is impossible to live long in the Orient or the south of France without becoming attached to those gentle； willing animals。 The role which honest 〃Bourico〃 fills so well abroad is played on this side of the Atlantic by the American husband。
I mean no disrespect to my married compatriots； on the contrary； I admire them as I do all docile； unselfish beings。 It is well for our women； however； that their lords； like the little Oriental donkeys； ignore their strength； and are content to toil on to the end of their days； expecting neither praise nor thanks in return。
Chapter 14 … 〃CAROLUS〃
IN the early seventies a group of students … dissatisfied with the cut…and…dried instruction of the Paris art school and attracted by certain qualities of color and technique in the work of a young Frenchman from the city of Lille； who was just beginning to attract the attention of connoisseurs … went in a body to his studio with the request that he would oversee their work and direct their studies。 The artist thus chosen was Carolus…Duran。 Oddly enough； a majority of the youths who sought him out and made him their master were Americans。
The first modest workroom on the Boulevard Montparnasse was soon too small to hold the pupils who crowded under this newly raised banner； and a move was made to more commodious quarters near the master's private studio。 Sargent； Dannat； Harrison； Beckwith； Hinckley； and many others whom it is needless to mention here； will … if these lines come under their notice … doubtless recall with a thrill of pleasure the roomy one… storied structure in the rue Notre…Dame des Champs where we established our ATELIER D'ELEVES； a self…supporting cooperative concern； each student contributing ten francs a month toward rent； fire； and models； 〃Carolus〃 … the name by which this master is universally known abroad … not only refusing all compensation； according to the immutable custom of French painters of distinction； but； as we discovered later； contributing too often from his own pocket to help out the MASSIER at the end of a difficult season； or smooth the path of some improvident pupil。
Those were cloudless； enchanted days we passed in the tumbled down old atelier： an ardent springtime of life when the future beckons gayly and no doubts of success obscure the horizon。 Our young master's enthusiasm fired his circle of pupils； who； as each succeeding year brought him increasing fame； revelled in a reflected glory with the generous admiration of youth； in which there is neither calculation nor shadow of envy。
A portrait of Madame de Portalais； exhibited about this time； drew all art…loving Paris around the new celebrity's canvas。 Shortly after； the government purchased a painting （of our master's beautiful wife）； now known as LA FEMME AU GANT； for the Luxembourg Gallery。
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