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nds are to be found。 Yet； limited as such a girl's choice is； she will sooner remain single than accept a husband out of her set。 She has a perfectly distinct idea of what she wants； and has lived so long in the atmosphere of wealth that existence without footmen and male cooks； horses and French clothes； appears to her impossible。 Such large proportions do these details assume in her mind that each year the husband himself becomes of less importance； and what he can provide the essential point。
If an outsider is sufficiently rich； my lady may consent to unite her destinies to his； hoping to get him absorbed into her own world。
It is pathetic； considering the restricted number of eligible men going about； to see the trouble and expense that parents take to keep their daughters EN EVIDENCE。 When one reflects on the number of people who are disturbed when such a girl dines out； the horses and men and women who are kept up to convey her home； the time it has taken her to dress； the cost of the toilet itself； and then see the man to whom she will be consigned for the evening； … some bored man about town who has probably taken her mother in to dinner twenty years before； and will not trouble himself to talk with his neighbor； or a schoolboy； breaking in his first dress suit； … when one realizes that for many maidens this goes on night after night and season after season； it seems incredible that they should have the courage； or think it worth their while to keep up the game。
The logical result of turning eternally in the same circle is that nine times out of ten the men who marry choose girls out of their own set； some pretty stranger who has burst on their jaded vision with all the charm of the unknown。 A conventional society maiden who has not been fortunate enough to meet and marry a man she loves； or whose fortune tempts her； during the first season or two that she is 〃out；〃 will in all probability go on revolving in an ever…narrowing circle until she becomes stationary in its centre。
In comparison with such an existence the life of the average 〃summer girl〃 is one long frolic； as varied as that of her aristocratic sister is monotonous。 Each spring she has the excitement of selecting a new battle…ground for her manoeuvres； for in the circle in which she moves； parents leave such details to their children。 Once installed in the hotel of her choice； mademoiselle proceeds to make the acquaintance of an entirely new set of friends； delightful youths just arrived； and bent on making the most of their brief holidays； with whom her code of etiquette allows her to sail all day； and pass uncounted evening hours in remote corners of piazza or beach。
As the words 〃position〃 and 〃set〃 have no meaning to her young ears； and no one has ever preached to her the importance of improving her social standing； the acquaintances that chance throws in her path are accepted without question if they happen to be good…looking and amusing。 She has no prejudice as to standing； and if her supply of partners runs short； she will dance and flirt with the clerk from the desk in perfect good humor … in fact； she stands rather in awe of that functionary； and admires the 〃English〃 cut of his clothes and his Eastern swagger。 A large hotel is her dream of luxury； and a couple of simultaneous flirtations her ideal of bliss。 No long evenings of cruel boredom； in order to be seen at smart houses； will cloud the maiden's career； no agonized anticipation of retiring partnerless from cotillion or supper will disturb her pleasure。
In the city she hails from； everybody she knows lives in about the same style。 Some are said to be wealthier than others； but nothing in their way of life betrays the fact； the art of knowing how to enjoy wealth being but little understood outside of our one or two great cities。 She has that tranquil sense of being the social equal of the people she meets； the absence of which makes the snob's life a burden。
During her summers away from home our 〃young friend〃 will meet other girls of her age； and form friendships that result in mutual visiting during the ensuing winter； when she will continue to add more new names to the long list of her admirers； until one fine morning she writes home to her delighted parents that she has found the right man at last； and engaged herself to him。
Never having penetrated to those sacred centres where birth and wealth are considered all…important； and ignoring the supreme importance of living in one set； the plan of life that such a woman lays out for herself is exceedingly simple。 She will coquette and dance and dream her pleasant dream until Prince Charming； who is to awaken her to a new life； comes and kisses away the dew of girlhood and leads his bride out into the work…a…day world。 The simple surroundings and ambitions of her youth will make it easy for this wife to follow the man of her choice； if necessary； to the remote village where he is directing a factory or to the mining camp where the foundations of a fortune lie。 Life is full of delicious possibilities for her。 Men who are forced to make their way in youth often turn out to be those who make 〃history〃 later； and a bride who has not become prematurely BLASEE to all the luxuries or pleasures of existence will know the greatest happiness that can come into a woman's life； that of rising at her husband's side； step by step； enjoying his triumphs as she shared his poverty。
Chapter 25 … La Comedie Francaise a Orange
IDLING up through the south of France； in company with a passionate lover of that fair land； we learned on arriving at Lyons； that the actors of the Comedie Francaise were to pass through there the next day； EN ROUTE for Orange； where a series of fetes had been arranged by 〃Les Felibres。〃 This society； composed of the writers and poets of Provence； have the preservation of the Roman theatre at Orange （perhaps the most perfect specimen of classical theatrical architecture in existence） profoundly at heart； their hope being to restore some of its pristine beauty to the ruin； and give from time to time performances of the Greek masterpieces on its disused stage。
The money obtained by these representations will be spent in the restoration of the theatre； and it is expected in time to make Orange the centre of classic drama； as Beyreuth is that of Wagnerian music。
At Lyons； the CORTEGE was to leave the Paris train and take boats down the Rhone； to their destination。 Their programme was so tempting that the offer of places in one of the craft was enough to lure us away from our prearranged route。
By eight o'clock the following morning； we were on foot； as was apparently the entire city。 A cannon fired from Fort Lamothe gave the signal of our start。 The river； covered with a thousand gayly decorated craft； glinted and glittered in the morning light。 It world be difficult to forget that scene； … the banks of the Rhone were lined with the rural population； who had come miles in every direction to acclaim the passage of their poets。
Everywhere along our route the houses were