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the foundations of personality-第83章
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and constant activity; well controlled by purpose; with eagerness and enthusiasm manifested in each act but not excessively。 1。 A。 is one of these people。 In school he specialized in athletics and was a fine all…round player in almost every sport。 When he left high school to go to work he at once entered business。 His employers soon found him to be a tireless worker; steady and purposeful in everything。 In addition to carrying on his duties by day; A。 studied nights; carefully choosing his subjects so that they related directly to his business。 Despite the fact that his work was hard and his studies exacting; A。 had energy enough left to join social organizations and to take a leading part in their affairs。 He became quickly known as one of those busy people who always are ready to take on more work。 Naturally this led to his becoming a leader; first in his social relations and second in his business。 Always practical in his judgments and actions; A。 fell in love with the daughter of a rich family and married her; with the full approval of her relatives; who were keen enough to see that his energy; power and control were destined for success。 The leading traits that A。 manifests hinge around his high energy and control。 He is honest and conventional; devoted to the ideals of his group and admires learning; but he is not in any sense a scholar。 He is a poor speaker; in the ordinary sense of that term; but curiously effective; nevertheless; because his earnest energy and sturdy common sense win approval as 〃not a theorist。〃 But mainly he wins because he is tireless in energy and enthusiasm and yet has yoked these qualities to ordinary purposes。 The average man he meets understands him thoroughly; sympathizes with him completely and accepts him as a leader after his own heart。 So A。 has become rich and respected。 As times goes on; as he is brought more and more into contact with large affairs outside of business; as a trustee of hospitals and a director of charitable organizations; he broadens out but not into an 〃unsafe〃 attitude。 He pities the unfortunate but is not truly sympathetic; in that it rarely occurs to him that success and failure are relative; that an accident might have shipwrecked his fortunes and that his good qualities are as innate as his complexion。 For this man prides himself on his strong will and courage; whereas he merely has within him a fine engine in whose construction he had no part。 2。 The hyperkinetic; controlled; impractical person。 B。 is; in the fundamentals of energy and control; singularly like A。; but because of the nature of his interests and purposes their lives have completely diverged so that no one would ordinarily recognize the kinship in type。 B。 is and always has been a worker; enthusiastic and enduring; and he has stuck to his last with a fidelity that is remarkable。 He is very likable in the ordinary sense;pleasant to look at; cheerful; ready to joke; laugh or to help the other fellow。 Nevertheless; he has only a few friends and is a distinctly disappointed man at heart; because his interests are in the ordinary sense; impractical。 B。 early became interested in physiology。 From the very start he found in the workings of the human body a fascination that concentrated his efforts。 Poor; he worked hard enough to obtain scholarships and fellowships in one university after another until finally he became a Ph。 D。 Here was a great error from the practical standpoint; for had he become an M。 D。; he would have had a profession that offered an independent financial future。 But; in his zeal; he did not wish to take on the extended program of the physician; and he saw clearly that he might become a better scientist as a Ph。 D。 He became a teacher in one school after another; did a good deal of research work; but has not been fortunate enough to make any epoch…making discoveries。 He is one of those splendid; painstaking; energetic men found in every university who turn out good pieces of work of which only a few know anything; and from which in the course of time some genius or lucky scientist culls a few facts upon which to build up a great theory or a new doctrine。 He married one of his own students; a fine woman but unluckily not very strong; and so there fell on him many a domestic duty that a thousand extra dollars a year would have turned over to a maid。 Thus B。 is an obscure but respected member of the faculty of a small university。 He teaches well; though he dislikes it; and he is happy at the times when he works hard at some physiological problem。 He loves his family and has vowed that his son will be a business man。 He feels inferior as he contemplates his obscure existence; with its precarious financial state; its drudgery and most of all the gradual disappearance of his ideals。 He is frank to himself alone; wishes he had made money; but is apt to sneer at the world of the 〃fat and successful〃 as less than his intellectual equal。 He compares his own rewards with that of the successful man knowing less and with a narrower outlook。 Thus; through success; A。 is broadening and becoming something of an idealist。 B。 is narrowing and through failure is losing his ideals。 This is not an uncommon effect of success and failure。 Where success leads to arrogance and conceit it narrows; but where the character withstands this result the increased experience and opportunity is of great value to character。 Failure may embitter and thus narrow through envy and lost energy; but also it may strip away conceit and overestimation and thus lead to a richer insight into life。 3。 The hyperkinetic; uncontrolled or shallow。 This type; although quick and apparently energetic; is deficient in a fundamental of the personality; in the organizing energy。 This deficiency may extend into all phases of the mental life or in only a few phases。 Thus we see people whose thinking is rapid; energetic; but they cannot 〃stick〃 to one line of thought long enough to reach a goal。 Others are similarly situated in regard to purposes; they are enthusiastic; easily stirred into activity; but rarely do their purposes remain fixed long enough for success。 As a rule this class is inconstant in affections; though warm and sympathetic。 They gush but never organize their philanthropic efforts; so that they rarely do any real good。 Often the most lovable of people; they are at the same time the despair of those who know them best。 M。 is a woman who makes a fine first impression; is very pretty; with nice manners and a quick; flattering interest in every one she meets。 She is usually classed as intelligent because she is vivacious; that is; her mind follows the trend of things quickly; and she marshals whatever she knows very readily。 As one who knows her well says; 〃She shows all her goods the first time。 You really do not know how slender her stock in trade is until you see the same goods and tricks every time you meet her。〃 Needless to say her critic is a woman。 M。 is interested in something new each week。 The 〃new〃 usually fascinates her; and she becomes so extraordinarily busy that she hardly has time to eat or sleep。 She is always put on committees if the organization heads do not know her; but if they do; she is carefully slated for som
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