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the foundations of personality-第84章

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ommittees if the organization heads do not know her; but if they do; she is carefully slated for something of no importance。 After a short time her interest has shifted to something else。 Thus she passes from work in behalf of blind babies to raising funds for a home for indigent actors; from energy spent in philanthropy to energy spent in learning the latest dances。 Her enthusiasm never cools off; though its goal always changes。 Fortunately she is married to a rich man who views her with affection and a shrug of his shoulders。 Her children know her; now and then; she becomes extraordinarily interested in their welfare; much to their disgust and rebellion; for they have long since sized her up。 She has often been on the verge of a love affair with some man who is professionally interested in something into which she has leaped for a short time。 She raves about him; follows him; flatters and adores him; and then; before the poor fellow knows where he is at; she is out of love and off somewhere else。 This mutability of affection has undoubtedly saved her from disaster。 Were she not rich; M。 would be one of the social problems that the social workers cannot understand or handle; e。 g。; there is a type who never sticks to anything; not because he is bored quickly; or is inefficient; but because he is at the mercy of the new and irrelevant。 Without sufficient means he throws up his job and tries to get the new work he longs to do。 Sometimes he fails to get it; and then he becomes an unemployed problem。 This type of uncontrolled energy reaches its height in the manical or manic phase of the disease already described as manic depressive insanity。 The 〃manic personality;〃 which need not become insane; is characterized by high energy; vivacious emotions; rapid flow of thought and irrelevant associations。 4。 The mesokineticmedium or average in their energy (feeling and power)run the range of the vast groups we call the average。 This type is spurred on by necessity; custom and habit to steady work and steady living。 Possessed of practical wisdom; their world is narrow; their affections only called out for their kindred and immediate friends。 Their interests are largely away from their work and as a rule do not include the past or future of the race。 Usually conservative; they accept the moral standards as absolute and are quick to resent changes in custom。 They follow leaders cheerfully; are capable of intense loyalty to that cause which they believe to stand for their interests。 Yet each individual of the mass of men; though he never rises above mediocrity; presents to his intimates a grouping of qualities and peculiarities that gives him a distinct personality。 C。 is one of those individuals whose mediocre energy has stood between him and so…called success。 At present he is forty and occupies about the same position that he did at twenty。 As a boy he was fond of play but never excelled in any sport and never occupied a place of leadership。 He had the usual pugnacious code of boys; but because he was friendly and good…natured rarely got into a fight。 He liked to read and was rather above the average in intelligence; but he never tackled the difficult reading; confining himself to the 〃interesting〃 novel and easy information。 He left high school when he was sixteen and immediately on leaving he dropped all study。 He entered an office as errand boy and was recognized as faithful and industrious; but he showed no especial initiative or energy。 In the course of time he was promoted from one position to another until he became a shipper at the age of twenty。 Since this time he has remained at this post without change; except that when he got married and on a few occasions afterward; when the cost of living rose; his salary was raised。 C。 is married; and his wife often 〃nags〃 him because he does not get ahead。 She tells him that he has no energy and fight in him; that if he would he could do better。 Sometimes he takes refuge in the statement that he has no pull; that those who have been promoted over his head are favorites for some reason or another; and he rarely recognizes the superiority of his immediate superiors; though he is loyal enough to the boss。 He lives in that 〃quiet despair〃 that Thoreau so aptly describes as the life of the average man; and he seeks escape from it in smoking; in belonging to a variety of fraternal organizations; in the movies and the detective story。 He is a 〃good〃 father and husband; which means that he turns over all his earnings; is faithful and kind。 Except that he admonishes and punishes his children when they are 〃bad;〃 he takes no constructive share in their training and leaves that to the mother; the church and the school。 He and his wife are attached to one another through habit and mutual need; but they have some time since outlived passion and intense affection。 She has sized him up as a failure and knows herself doomed to struggle against poverty; and he knows that she understands him。 This mutual 〃understanding〃 keeps them at arm's length except in the face of danger or disaster; when they cling to each other for comfort and support。 This is the history of many a marriage that on its surface is quiet and peaceful。 The hypokinetic types。 We cannot separate energy display from enthusiasm; courage; intelligence; persistent purpose; etc。 If I have made myself clear in the preceding pages of this book; you will realize that no character of man works alone; but all feeling; thought and action is a resultant of forces。 Nevertheless; there are those in whom the fire of life burns high and others in whom it burns low; and either group may be of totally different qualities otherwise。 There are people of low energy discharge; and these it seems to me are of two main kinds;the one where nothing seems to arouse or create powerful motives and purposes; and the other in whom the main defect is a rapidly arising exhaustion。 The first I call the simple hypokinetic group and the other the irritable hypokinetic group。 The simple hypokinetic person may be one of any grade of intelligence but more commonly is of low intelligence。 In any school for the feeble…minded one finds the apathetic imbecile; who can be kept at work by goading and stimulation of one kind or another; who does not tire especially; but who never works beyond a low level of speed and enthusiasm。 5。 A more interesting type is T。 He may be called the intelligent hypokinetic; the high…grade failure。 As a baby he learned to walk late; though he talked early and well。 He played in a leisurely sort of way; running only when he had to and content as a rule to be in the house。 He was not seclusive; seeming to enjoy the company of other children; but rarely made any efforts to seek them out。 He was quick to learn but showed only a moderate curiosity; and he rarely made any investigations on his own account。 It was noticed that he seldom asked 〃why〃 in the usual manner of intelligent children。 He did fairly well in school; he had a wonderful memory and seemed to see very quickly into intricate problems。 It was always a great surprise of his teachers that he was so bright; as one said; in comparison to his standing。 Once or twice a zealous teacher sought to stimula
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